Marriage is very important to Indonesian people. In urban areas women get married in their twenties and men wait to get a job to support their family. weddings in Indonesia require the groom to sign a marriage contract promising to provide for his family and to take care of his family . Guests give presents but mostly money to help them start their life. The groom provides the bride with a prayer rug, white dress (used for praying), and prayer beads to bless their wedding.